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Introducing Mewsic Moves' Recommended Spotify Playlists for Music Therapy: Calm & Focus
At Mewsic Moves, we understand the transformative power of music therapy in healing, growth, and self-expression. As part of our dedication to enhancing mental health through music, we're thrilled to introduce our "Mewsic Moves Recommended" Spotify playlist series. Our first offering, the "Calm & Focus" playlist, is designed to support therapeutic music experiences and provide healing through music between sessions and into everyday life.
Calm & Focus
Playlist Description: Calm & Focus
Welcome to the "Mewsic Moves: Calm & Focus" playlist! This therapeutic music collection is thoughtfully curated to support goals like self-regulation, improving attention span, emotional grounding and much more. Created by Mewsic Moves' experts in creative arts therapy, these tracks complement your music therapy sessions, whether you're developing skills such as self-regulation and focus or simply seeking a moment of musical peace.
Get Your Calm & Focus Playlist Here!
How to Use This Playlist:
1. Listen Actively
Engage with the therapeutic music by focusing on rhythms, melodies, and harmonies. Allow the sounds and lyrics to guide your thoughts and emotions, centering yourself during moments of stress or distraction.
2. Incorporate into Daily Routines
Whether you're studying, meditating, or winding down after work or before bed, this playlist can help you stay grounded and focused. Playing these songs during activities that require concentration enhances productivity and creates a peaceful environment.
3. Interactive Listening
Use the playlist as a backdrop for creative activities like drawing, journaling, or gentle movement exercises. The music promotes self-expression while encouraging calm and clarity.
4. Reflect and Share
After listening, reflect on how the music affected your mood or mindset. Sharing your experiences with your therapist or loved ones can deepen your therapeutic process and help you connect more meaningfully with others.
The "Mewsic Moves Recommended" Spotify playlist series is now ready to enhance your therapeutic journey. These thoughtfully curated playlists extend the therapeutic music experience beyond the therapy room, supporting clients in their ongoing development and everyday life experiences.
This initiative aligns with Mewsic Moves' commitment to evidence-based therapy and could lead to improved client outcomes as you incorporate music into your therapeutic process and everyday life.
We’d Love To Hear From You !!!
Regarding the Mewsic Moves Recommended Playlist, we'd love to hear your suggestions for our Calm & Focus playlist. If you have favorite tracks or ideas on what could enhance the experience, feel free to share them with us. Your feedback helps us create meaningful resources that align with our shared goals of peace, tranquility, grounding and maintaining focus.
Enjoy the journey of sound, and let the Mewsic Move you!
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If you're seeking support through counseling or music therapy, we're here to help! At Mewsic Moves, we offer a FREE 15-minute consultation to explore how our services can meet your unique needs. Whether you're interested in our "Calm & Focus" playlist or personalized therapy sessions, our experts are eager to guide you on your path to healing and growth.
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Release, Reflect, Repeat: The Power of Embracing Tears Without Apology
Why is it common for people to apologize when they cry or express emotions? Over my two decades of experience as a therapist, I've consistently encouraged clients to embrace and freely express their emotions, fostering an environment free from shame and judgment to help promote healing and wellness.
Crying is a natural and healthy emotional response to various situations in life. Whether it's sadness, frustration, joy, or even relief, shedding tears is a fundamental aspect of being human. However, many of us have been conditioned to apologize for crying, as if it's something to be ashamed of or a sign of weakness. In reality, crying is a powerful tool for processing emotions and promoting mental wellness. I wholeheartedly welcome tears, imagining them as a means to release and let go of things as they gently stream down my face.
Here's why we shouldn't feel the need to say sorry when tears start flowing, and why embracing our emotions is crucial for overall well-being.
Validating Your Feelings
When you apologize for crying, you're essentially dismissing the validity of your emotions. It sends the message that expressing vulnerability is wrong or unwelcome. Instead, I encourage clients to acknowledge and honor their feelings, recognizing that they are a natural part of the human experience. Whether you're crying out of sadness, frustration, or even happiness, your emotions are valid and deserve to be acknowledged without judgment.
Release and Relief
Crying serves as a release valve for pent-up emotions. Holding back tears can lead to increased stress and tension, whereas allowing yourself to cry can provide a sense of relief and catharsis. Tears contain stress hormones, so shedding them can actually help reduce feelings of anxiety and promote a sense of emotional balance. By embracing your tears, you're giving yourself permission to let go of negative energy and make space for healing. We take in so much on a daily basis but spend very little time letting the energy or feelings go.
Building Emotional Resilience
Contrary to popular belief, showing vulnerability is a sign of strength and courage, not weakness. Check out Dr. Brene Brown’s TED Talk on vulnerability. By allowing yourself to cry without apologizing, you're demonstrating courage and authenticity. This willingness to be emotionally honest fosters deeper connections with others and cultivates resilience in the face of adversity. It takes courage to confront your emotions head-on, and by embracing your tears, you're taking an important step towards building emotional resilience and providing a positive role model for others struggling with letting go of various emotions.
Promoting Well-Being
Suppressing emotions can have detrimental effects on your mental health. Research has shown that allowing yourself to experience and express your feelings is essential for overall well-being. Crying can help regulate mood, reduce stress, and enhance emotional clarity. By refraining from apologizing for your tears, you're prioritizing your mental wellness and embracing a more compassionate attitude towards yourself.
Encouraging Authenticity
When we apologize for crying, we're essentially hiding our true selves and putting up a facade of strength. However, true strength lies in authenticity and vulnerability. By embracing your tears and refusing to apologize for them, you're embracing your authentic self and inviting others to do the same. This fosters deeper connections and creates a supportive environment where everyone feels free to express themselves without fear of judgment or shame.
Crying is a natural and essential part of being a human. Be careful when you are connecting with someone who is expressing their emotions through tears. I encourage you to be more supportive of their courage to be authentic and let go of the energy and sadness that they have been carrying. On the other hand, rather than apologizing for shedding tears, we should embrace our emotions and allow ourselves to experience them fully and freely. By doing so, we validate our feelings, promote mental wellness, and cultivate deeper connections with others. So the next time tears start to flow, remember that it's okay not to say sorry. Instead, allow yourself to cry freely and honor the beauty of your emotional experience. If others are uncomfortable with your tears or sadness, that's on them not you!
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5 Beginner-Friendly Instruments for Mental Health
Embarking on a musical journey can be a powerful ally in fostering mental well-being, and choosing the right instrument can make all the difference. In this blog post, we explore five beginner-friendly instruments that not only make learning enjoyable but also contribute to mental health in various ways. From the ethereal tones of the tongue drum to the soothing resonance of the singing bowl, each instrument offers a unique avenue for relaxation, focus, self-expression, and more. Join us in discovering how these instruments can become your companions on the path to enhanced mental well-being.
Tongue Drum
You know that beautiful serene music that you hear playing at the spa or in yoga classes? Well, you can make that yourself if you have a tongue drum. There are no “wrong” notes on the instrument, as the intervals are all within a pentatonic scale - basically meaning they all sound great together and in any order. It also resonates with complex overtones as you play, meaning that the sound you create will be more immersive and complex as you continue playing. Order one for yourself or a loved one here.
Great for: Relaxation, focus, mindfulness, self expression
Singing Bowl
This one serves a similar purpose to the one above, except for it’s even simpler. With only one note and infinite *overtones* (see above) to accompany it as you play, you’ll find yourself immersed and soothed by the sounds you’re making. In fact, it was originally designed in Tibet for this very purpose, often being accompanied with meditation. You can find one here.
Great for: Relaxation, focus, mindfulness
Bamboo Flute
Continuing in the territory of soothing spa-like music, a bamboo flute can be a great way to combine that feeling with learning an instrument and having a way to express yourself (Andre 3000 figured this out recently!). There are so many different kinds of bamboo flutes depending on what you want and how much you want to spend, but I’d recommend starting here.
Great for: Breath control & support, self expression, relaxation, cognitive exercise, self-actualization
Djembe
Have you ever been a part of a drum circle? If you have, you know that feeling of freedom and catharsis that comes with getting lost in a swirl of rhythms for extended periods of time. You could create those moments for yourself at home with something like a djembe. Originally hailing from West Africa, this instrument has been used for centuries, often in communal places alongside others. It’s no wonder that this instrument has carried on throughout such a long time, as drumming can be shown to improve cognitive functioning, motor functioning, mood, stress levels, and even speech & communication in some cases. Feel free to peruse the web or your local music shop to find one that calls out to you, but you can start here.
Great for: Self expression, emotional outlet/catharsis, cognitive exercise, rhythmic entrainment
Dulcimer
The last one on our list is one you may not see so often - the dulcimer. Remember that word ‘pentatonic’ from the first part of our list? This instrument is in that same kind of key, so you’re probably not going to find yourself accidentally playing a note you’re not happy with. It will feel like playing a guitar, as it has strings and frets and looks very similar. The difference is that there are fewer strings and the frets are much wider. It can be a fantastic way to enter the world of learning to play the guitar while also making sounds that you’ll immediately love. Get yourself a dulcimer here, sit down in a quiet room, and get lost in the sounds that you make with it.
Great for: Self expression, cognitive exercise, self-actualization
In the realm of mental health and self-discovery, the world of music opens up endless possibilities. Whether you find solace in the calming notes of a bamboo flute, unleash emotions through the rhythmic beats of a djembe, or explore the dulcet tones of a dulcimer, each instrument holds the key to unlocking different aspects of your well-being. By incorporating these beginner-friendly instruments into your life, you not only embark on a musical adventure but also embrace a therapeutic journey towards relaxation, self-expression, and cognitive enrichment. Begin your musical exploration today and let the harmonies resonate with your mental health and well-being.
Written by Zach Farr
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Harmonizing the Holidays: Exploring the Emotional Impacts of Holiday Music
While many Christmas songs are joyful and uplifting, some may contain themes or lyrics that could be perceived as less supportive for individuals dealing with mental health issues. The impact of a song can vary from person to person, and what may be triggering for one individual may not be for another. As a music therapist working in mental health care, the holidays can be very triggering to overall mental health and the music we are bombarded with can also contribute to overall mental health decline. Below are a few Christmas songs that, depending on personal sensitivities and/or mental wellness, could be perceived as less supportive or impact mental health decline:
Blue Christmas - by Elvis Presley
This song expresses feelings of loneliness and heartache during the holiday season, which may not be uplifting for someone already struggling with mental health challenges. It also has underlying messages of being alone or single at Christmas which can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation.
Please Come Home for Christmas - by Eagles
While a classic, this song portrays messages of separation and longing, potentially resonating with those who are missing loved ones or feeling isolated. This can also increase feelings of grief and sadness if someone has had a loss in their life in the past year or more.
I'll Be Home for Christmas - (Various Artists)
This song, while beautiful, may evoke feelings of sadness for those who are unable to be with their families during the holidays. In 2022, it was reported that 55% of Americans experienced loneliness during the holiday season.
Last Christmas - by Wham!
This song tells a story of heartbreak and disappointment, and its themes may not be supportive for those going through emotional difficulties such as a divorce, break up, isolation and more.
Christmas (Baby Please Come Home) - by Darlene Love
Similar to other songs on this list, this one conveys a sense of longing and separation during the holiday season which can contribute to elevated feelings of sadness and/or depression.
Same Old Lang Syne - by Dan Fogelberg
While not explicitly a Christmas song, it is often associated with the holiday season and tells a story of a chance meeting with an old flame. The themes of nostalgia and bittersweet memories may be challenging for some, especially when struggling with mental health conditions and remembering the times when “I felt happier” or “when I wasn’t depressed”, etc. Nostalgic songs are important when reflecting on being grateful for the positive feelings of the past but can also lead to grieving if not able to feel those same feelings in the present.
My Grown-Up Christmas List - (Various Artists):
This song reflects on wishes for a better world and personal growth. Depending on an individual's circumstances, the lyrics may be emotionally charged. At any moment, if we were to tune into the media, our world can seem somewhat hopeless or helpless and this can have a major impact on someone's mental health.
It's important to note that the impact of holiday music on mental health is highly subjective, and some individuals may find solace or connection in these songs. As a music therapist in mental health treatment I caution some of these songs if someone is struggling with mental health issues. I suggest that you be mindful of the songs and the underlying messages you are receiving and the impact on your mental health and wellness.
If you are struggling with the holidays, feeling overwhelmed or living with any mental health condition, please know that you are not alone and there is support for you and your loved ones. Please reach out to your support networks or contact a local mental health therapist that can help guide you and provide coping skills to get you through this holiday season.
What holiday songs can you add to the list that may impact overall mental wellness? We look forward to hearing from you.
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Jingle Blues: Unpacking the Factors Behind Holiday Mental Health Decline
While Christmas and the holiday season is often associated with joy, celebration, and togetherness, it can also be a challenging time for many individuals who struggle with mental health conditions. In this article I’d like to outline several factors that contribute to the difficulties that many may face during the holiday season, regardless of your mental health!
Increased Expectations:
Societal pressures to participate in joyful celebrations can lead to heightened expectations. The pressure to meet these expectations often contribute to stress, anxiety and sometimes inadequacy.
Financial Stress:
The expectations of gift-giving and festivities often cause financial strain on families, especially parents. Families often over extend their credit to make sure their children have “the best of the holiday season”. Financial stress can be a significant source of anxiety and stress and often impacts overall mental well-being.
Family Dynamics:
Unlike Hallmark movies, spending time with family is not always joyful and can be challenging due to strained relationships, unresolved conflicts or the absence of loved ones. Family gatherings can bring up many emotions such as sadness, worry, frustration and even anger.
Isolation and Loneliness:
Not everyone has a supportive circle , friends or close family to spend the holidays with. This can bring on feelings of isolation and loneliness and can exacerbate feelings of solitude.
Grief and Loss:
For individuals who have experienced loss of a loved one, a job, a relationship, or even a pet, the holidays can be a reminder of their absence and increase sadness or repeating the grieving process.Coping with grief during a time that emphasizes family and connection can be particularly challenging.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD):
Some people experience a form of depression known as Seasonal Affective Disorder during the winter months when there is less natural sunlight. The combination of reduced sunlight, colder weather, and holiday-related stressors can contribute to mental health challenges.
Social Comparison:
Social media has been known to increase stress during the holiday season in comparison to others as a way of considering the “norm” in the way each celebrates the season. This often leads to feelings of inadequacy, dissatisfaction and more.
Overcommitment and Burnout:
The holiday season often involves a flurry of activities, parties, and responsibilities. We often want to be “people pleasers” and overcommit to these extra festivities during the holiday season. Overcommitment can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and a negative impact on our mental health.
Unrealistic Ideals:
Media platforms can create unrealistic ideals such as the “perfect holiday” or “connection with family and friends” and much more.
Families or individuals may feel pressure to achieve or attain an unrealistic sense of perfection in the season that often leads to disappointment, stress and mental health decline.
What’s most important is to recognize that everyone experiences the holiday season and traditions differently and what may appear as a joyful time for some may be a challenging time for others. For those that may be impacted more by the social pressure or expectations of the holiday season I recommend you focus on:
Practicing self-care
Set realistic goals and expectations
Reach out and seek support when needed
Prioritize your mental wellness
If you are struggling with some of these elements during the holiday season, first know that you are not alone and that there is help and support available. Make the holiday season work for you and for your mental health. Media and commercialization can add unwanted stress or expectations. I highly encourage you to make the holidays based on your values and what you ultimately can manage or handle wherever you are in your mental health. If you are overwhelmed, finding it hard to keep up or even not feeling the holiday “joy”, please reach out to your local therapists or support systems and put your mental health first.
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The Importance of Gratitude and Music in Mental Health Wellness
We are in the midst of one of the biggest holidays in the United States, Thanksgiving. Many families traditionally host family dinners and create memories and focus on things that they are grateful for during this holiday season. As a marriage and family therapist as well as music therapist, in our practice at Mewsic Moves we focus heavily on the power of gratitude and incorporating music as it is an important element of mental wellness. I try myself to practice gratitude daily to maintain optimum mental wellness.
Gratitude and music therapy are both powerful in their ability to positively impact mental and emotional well-being. I would like to outline the connection between gratitude and the impact or benefits of music in mental wellness.
Gratitude
1- Positive Psychology:
Gratitude is a central theme and focus in positive psychology. Practicing gratitude involves acknowledging and appreciating the positive aspects of life, which can contribute to increased happiness and life satisfaction. Gratitude also can trump negative or fear thoughts they cannot exist at the same time.
2- Emotional Well-Being:
Having consistent practice of gratitude has been linked to improved emotional well-being. Expressing thankfulness can reduce stress, enhance mood, and contribute to a more positive outlook on life. Research has shown that consciously practicing gratitude can reduce feelings of stress and anxiety. In fact, studies have found that a single act of thoughtful gratitude produces an immediate 10% increase in happiness, and a 35% reduction in depressive symptoms.
3- Social Connection:
Gratitude often involves recognizing the contributions of others. This can strengthen social bonds and relationships, fostering a sense of community and support which is important in mental wellness.
4- Mindfulness and Presence:
Gratitude practices often encourage individuals to be present in the moment and become mindful of the positive aspects of their day to day lives. This can help reduce anxiety and promote a sense of peace.
Music Therapy
1- Emotional Expression:
Music has the power to evoke and express a wide range of emotions. Music therapy can serve as a channel for individuals to express and process complex feelings, including gratitude either through playing or listening to music.
2- Stress Reduction:
Listening to or creating music has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety. Music therapy provides a structured and therapeutic environment for individuals to engage with music as a means of relaxation or mindfulness. Get your free meditation download here from our amazing music therapist, Zach.
3- Enhanced Mood:
Music has the ability to influence mood and emotions. Music therapists use music interventions strategically to help individuals first validate and then shift their emotional states, working on achieving a more positive and uplifted mood.
4- Connection and Communication:
For individuals who may struggle with verbal expression, music can serve as a powerful means of communication. Music therapy facilitates connection and self-expression, even for those who find it challenging to convey their emotions verbally. Mewsic Moves offers multiple groups for clients to connect.
5- Cognitive Benefits:
Music therapy has cognitive benefits, such as improved memory, attention, and problem-solving skills. These cognitive enhancements can contribute to a more positive and empowered sense of self. Some music therapists are also trained in Neurologic Music Therapy (NMT) which specialize in working with clients with neurologic conditions such as Autism, Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s and more that focuses on the cognitive benefits of music on the brain. All of our therapists are trained in NMT.
6- Community and Support:
Participating in music therapy sessions can create a sense of community and support. Group music-making or shared listening experiences foster a feeling of belonging and shared purpose. At Mewsic Moves we have multiple groups that focus on the importance of community connection and support such as: Glee Choir, Rock Band, Music in Recovery, Musical Minds and more. Click here to view our group supports.
7- Therapeutic Relationship:
The therapeutic relationship between the music therapist and the individual is crucial. The therapist uses music to create a safe and supportive space, allowing individuals to explore and process their emotions, including gratitude.
How to Integrate Music in Your Gratitude Practice?
1- Gratitude Journals with Musical Elements:
Integrating music into gratitude practices, such as keeping a gratitude journal, can enhance the experience. Individuals might reflect on moments of musical joy or create playlists that represent things they are thankful for.
2- Expressing Gratitude Through Music:
Music can be a unique and creative way to express gratitude. Composing a song, playing an instrument, or even selecting a meaningful piece of music can serve as a personal expression of thanks.
3- Mindful Listening Practices:
Incorporating mindfulness and gratitude into music listening experiences can deepen the therapeutic impact. Paying close attention to the nuances of the music and appreciating the auditory journey can enhance the mindfulness aspect of gratitude.
4- Music Playlist of songs to reflect gratitude:
Making playlists on your smart phones or devices of songs that reflect gratitude can be an easy way to reflect on gratitude through music and songs from your favorite artists.
In summary, both gratitude and music therapy contribute to emotional well-being and can be integrated for a holistic approach to mental health and wellness. The combination of these practices can offer individuals unique and meaningful avenues for self-expression, connection, and optimum mental wellness.
We’d love to hear from you…What is your favorite gratitude song?
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Harmonizing with Hope: How the Magic of Music Can Alleviate Fall Depression
Fall is one of the most beautiful seasons of the year, with its colorful leaves, crisp air and recreating many fall family favorite food recipes. I know mine is anything pumpkin! However, for many people, it is also a time of increased sadness, anxiety, and depression. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) affects around 5% of the American population, with symptoms ranging from low mood to fatigue, irritability, and sleep problems. According to the American Psychiatric Association, “SAD typically lasts about 40% of the year and is more common among women than men.”
If you are feeling down during the fall season, one of the simplest and most effective ways to boost your mood is to listen to or play music. In this blog post, we will explore how music can help alleviate fall depression and provide tips on how to create the perfect fall playlist.
Music boosts your mood and releases endorphins
Listening to music has been linked to the release of endorphins and natural chemicals that trigger a positive feeling in the body. This is why music has such a powerful effect on our mood and emotions. By listening to uplifting and upbeat music, you can stimulate your brain to release endorphins, which can help counteract feelings of sadness, anxiety, stress and more. Playing an instrument can also have the same effect but you do not need to be a musician to benefit from its positive effects.
Music can reduce stress and anxiety
Music therapy has been shown to be an effective treatment for depression and anxiety. Studies have found that listening to calming music can help reduce stress hormone levels in the body, such as cortisol, which can contribute to feelings of anxiety, tension and stress. Creating a playlist of relaxing music on your iPhone or smart devices can help your body and mind to unwind and relax, reducing stress and anxiety levels. For more information on how music can help boost your mental health check out this article from the JED Foundation. Click Here for article
Music can evoke nostalgia and positive memories
Music has a powerful association with memories, and certain songs or genres can evoke positive memories and emotions. By listening to music that reminds you of happy times in your life, you can boost your mood and increase feelings of joy and happiness. From childhood classics to favorite college tunes, there is a wide range of music that can evoke a sense of nostalgia and positivity. I know when I listen to the Muppets theme song it immediately brings a smile to my face.
Music can improve your sleep quality
Sleep problems are a common symptom of depression and anxiety, and poor quality sleep can exacerbate these symptoms. Listening to calming music before bed has been shown to improve sleep quality and reduce sleeping problems such as insomnia. According to the Sleep Foundation, “Music has been shown to decrease levels of a stress hormone called cortisol. Music triggers the release of dopamine, which can boost good feelings at bedtime and may help manage pain”. To help your body and mind unwind before bed and to improve your sleep quality, pre-select some relaxing sounds or songs that you can put on a playlist and play while you start to settle in. Don’t forget to put your earbuds in as your calming music may be a distraction to your sleeping partner. Not everyone responds to music in the same way.
Music can provide a sense of connection and community
Music has the power to bring people together and create a sense of connection and community. By attending concerts, listening to live music, or even joining a choir, you can create a space where you feel connected to others through the shared experience of music. This social support can be an invaluable tool for combating feelings of loneliness and isolation, which are common in fall depression. If you are unable to find a community music group you can start to create musical moments with your family by creating a family dance party playlist, which is always fun and entertaining.
Music is an underrated but powerful tool for combating depression and improving mood and emotions for those struggling with mental health conditions and especially during the fall season changes. By creating a playlist of uplifting, calming, and nostalgic music, you can provide yourself with a simple but effective way to boost your mood, reduce stress and anxiety, improve your sleep quality, and create a sense of connection with others. So go ahead, create your ultimate fall playlist, and see how music can improve your mental health and wellbeing this season. Or if you are a musician, get out your guitar, sit at the piano and get a pot/spoon from the kitchen to create some rhythm and create a family band and rock it out through the changes of the fall.
Did we miss anything out? Let us know how music helps you get through the possible challenges of the Fall season. Also, we’d love to know some of your favorite calm songs that we can collect to create a playlist together.
For more information contact:
John Mews, LMFT, MT
CEO & Founder - Mewsic Moves
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Music Therapist
Email: john@mewsicmoves.com
Phone: (818) 877-6797
Web: www.mewsicmoves.com
Happy Holidays? 5 Ways to Maintain Optimum Mental Wellness During The Holidays
Happy Holidays!? Or is it? December has arrived, “Tis the season to be jolly?”. This is a time of the year we will be bombarded with messages of “joy, spirit, and much more, but it is also a time of the season when many people experience the complete opposite such as loneliness, depression, anxiety and more…
According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, 64% of people reported being affected by holiday depression. loneliness, stress, anxiety, and depression to name a few, are a reality for many during this holiday season. If you or any of your loved ones are experiencing these emotions, you are not alone. Here are 5 ideas we would like to share with you to help you survive and make the best of the upcoming holidays.
1. Music can be a distraction, why not learn how to play an instrument?
According to a study by Spotify, after playing a musical instrument, 89% of adults experienced increased feelings of happiness and relaxation. A third of participants noted that playing an instrument gave them a sense of purpose, confidence, and self-worth. If you are interested in learning an instrument, having a teacher will also provide an opportunity to make social and musical connections with another person who is there to support you! In this day and age, it is also common to learn an instrument through Youtube or other programs, (my nephew learned how to play guitar throughout the pandemic on YouTube).
Here are 4 recommendations if you would like to learn how to play a new instrument:
Try Take Lessons: Take lessons offers free live group lessons as well as 1:1 lessons that start at $1 an hour!
Try MasterClass: This program offers courses that are led by well-known instructors and even celebrities from all spectrums of the musical world.
Try Skillshare: Skillshare has over 27,000 classes available (including 2,000 free ones), it is a huge resource for online education almost anything, but is very ideal for learning about music or a musical instrument!
Try Udemy: Udemy is an enormous platform with a wide variety of subjects to learn about. If there’s an instrument you’re eager to play, even a less common one, it’s most likely here! Each course is designed and presented by an industry professional. Lessons start from $11.99.
2. Volunteering for a service program
In the documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind and Me , Dr. Vivek Murphy discusses the concept of loneliness and how to take steps to support loneliness. He notes that what truly matters is the quality of connections we have with one another. In situations where we feel like we cannot be ourselves, it tends to disconnect us and distance ourselves from others which can lead to feelings of loneliness and/or isolation. In his research, Dr. Murphy emphasized how important it is to be of service to others. Service is one of the most powerful antidotes to loneliness and/or depression. Dr. Vivek Murphy concludes, “We reaffirm to ourselves that we have value to bring to the world”.
5 volunteer organizations we suggest:
Meals on Wheels: Meals on Wheels is an organization that works to better the mental, emotional, health, and economic well-being of Americans in need, especially seniors. They constantly work towards their vision of ensuring that every American senior can enjoy a nourished life with freedom and dignity. Their mission is to make efforts to stop anyone going hungry or feeling lonely.
Insight Heart Foundation: Insight Heart Foundation is an organization providing essentials to vulnerable adults and children within low-income communities in Canada. They work to provide clothes to people who are homeless, school supplies for children, provide transportation for seniors, and much more.
ClimateScience: Climate Science is a UK-based organization driven by volunteers from all around the world! It is a place for people to learn about realistic solutions to climate change and resources to work together and contribute to our environment effectively!
Resource of 25 NGOs in Asia: Interested in contributing to communities in Asia? This website has a fantastic list of non-profit organizations to volunteer or donate to that include a variety of countries and needs
Peace Corps: A U.S. government program that provides volunteer opportunities to over 60 countries all over the world in continents such as Africa, Europe and Asia!! It does not charge people to volunteer, and provides meaningful work to support developing communities.
3. Tap Into Your Creativity
Being alone can be an opportunity for us to tap into our creativity! According to Shrein Bahrami, therapist and author of The Loneliness Companion, “being alone allows more freedom to choose to make time and space for a creative activity without external pressures. If we allow ourselves to connect to our emotions, we can choose to feel and express them safely through a creative outlet which can be healing and meaningful.
Here are 4 creative outlets:
Write a song: The idea of writing a song may be intimidating, but the process of writing a song can be exhilarating and fulfilling! . This link will give you easy steps to write your own song to express how you are feeling (even if you do not have much musical experience).
Make a painting/drawing: Drawing or painting can be a great positive distraction. This link provides tips on how to start drawing or painting even as a beginner.
Write a story: Not only can we write about how we’re feeling, but we also can write an alternate reality that reflects how we feel or how we want to feel. This link provides many tips to start writing your own authentic story!
Write a poem: Don’t want to commit to writing a long story? Try writing a short poem! You can even try challenging yourself to make a poetry journal. Creating a poetry journal could keep you accountable to constantly create something, while also giving you a way to reflect on how you once were and how far you’ve grown. This link guides you through starting to write your feelings and thoughts into a personal piece of poetry.
Keep in mind that when tapping into our creative outlets, aiming for perfection is not the main goal. The key goal is to process how you are feeling and turn it into something you can hear, feel, see, or touch. Through this we provide a sense of accomplishment and value in our lives.
4. Move and Dance!
It has been proven that moving reduces stress, boosts self-esteem, relieves feelings of depression, and so much more. (Bruce, Debra 2022) When we exercise, our body releases chemicals known as endorphins which trigger positive feelings in the body! (I love to crank my favorite songs and dance in the kitchen or in the shower).
Here are 4 movement and dance exercises:
Plan a thematic walk: Walking during the cold weather can be tedious and depending where you are located can be dangerous. Depending on where you are located, adjust the setting, and try to go out for a little walk to let your mind and body reset. This link will provide some ideas on how to make your walk a little more exciting.
Dance to a Video: An in-person dance movement class can be so fun but sometimes it’s hard to find one! This web resource provides a 30 minute “all-level” cardio dance workout! Get those endorphins pumping and enjoy moving and dancing to upbeat music! “Mewsic Moves”!
Stretch: Stretching is important for our minds and bodies. It helps improve flexibility which supports our physical performance in other daily physical activities. Stretching also brings our thoughts to the present moment which can be very beneficial to our mental health. This video offers support to individuals of all levels and ages to start stretching our bodies which overall impacts our mental wellness.
Hiking: Hiking is an excellent form of exercise that connects ourselves back to nature. Not only can we gain the feel-good endorphins from moving, but we also can gain perspective on how there is so much beautiful life around us. Hiking also has benefits for our heart, balance, and allows us to disconnect from all the outside noise. This link organizes trails for you whether you’re a beginner or an expert.
Not only do we encourage you to move, but music is proven to help motivate our bodies and minds to move at a steady pace for a longer period of time. (Thaut, 2015). Click the link below to see our holiday post from last year that includes a variety of songs to add to your movement playlist!
5. Join a social group meaningful to you
It can be challenging to put yourself out there, but a rewarding way to reduce the feelings of loneliness is to make an effort to connect with other people. Like Dr. Vivek Murphy said, one of the greatest elements of life is human connection. Taking the time to listen to someone and practice empathy can help us feel less alone, connected and be a positive presence for someone else. One way to connect with others is to join a club! Finding a group that has similar interests as our own can be a great start to making meaningful connections.
Here are 4 resources to various clubs:
Join a book club: Reading is an awesome way to learn, grow, and escape into an alternate reality. It gives us the opportunity to transform our everyday life. Taking the opportunity to talk to people about a book that you just read and enjoyed can be even more transformative! This resource is a reading program that is a worldwide digital version of a local book club. If you can’t find a book club in your community, this is a great way to connect with people from all over the world!
Join a singing group: Music is a wonderful way to deeply connect with people. This link takes you to an amazing group called, “The Sofa Singers”. Developed during the pandemic, this group was created with the mission to have an inclusive and supportive worldwide community that sings together online. Regular sessions take place at 7:30pm Tuesday and 11am Friday every week (GMT). Similarly, Mewsic Moves transitioned their Glee Choir for adults with neuro-divers, intellectual and developmental needs during the pandemic to an online zoom platform to help with community connection.
Join a gardening community: Gardening can make us feel more at peace and practice mindfulness by being present. It requires us to focus our attention on the immediate task allowing us to feel better in the moment. What’s even better is being able to do this while also having a place to share our little plant treasures with other people. Gardening can also be quite difficult if we don’t know the best way to take care of our plants. This resource link provides 10 online gardening communities!
Join a music appreciation community: A feeling possibly better than listening to your favorite song is having someone who loves that song just as much as you and listening to it together! There is ample evidence of how music adds life to our communities, engages our brains, and strengthens our sense of belonging and connection with others. (Playcore, 2020). This link directs you to a variety of music appreciation groups near you.
Mewsic Moves would also like to take this opportunity to introduce you our own music-making communities, Glee Choir and Musical Minds.
Glee Choir is our music therapy program for adults with neuro-diverse, intellectual and developmental special needs. The group is a safe space for our adults to share their love for music, while also working on a variety of goals such as building self-esteem, expressing emotions, social skills, and much more. We offer this program in person as well as via zoom to help support adults that are located in remote areas where programs may be less available.
Musical Minds is our group therapy program for individuals with Parkinson’s and/or Alzheimer’s to experience music-making together in a fun and safe environment, while also working on a variety of goals such as improving cognitive functioning, memory, self-expression, motor skills, and much more. We also like to include partners and family members into this program to continue to focus on family connection.
Lastly, we want all of you to know that you are not alone in these feelings. Mewsic Moves felt so deeply about this that we produced a video during the pandemic that focused on mental wellness and invited music therapists from all over the world to join in a musical message to let others know that whenever you are feeling lonely, anxious or depressed, and more… “You are Not Alone”
The next few months can be extremely difficult and draining for some. We want to validate that this can be a very tough time for many and we are here to help support you and hope some of these resources will help you survive this difficult time of the year.
Peaceful and Well Wishes this Holiday Season. You are not alone. Also if you need additional support we offer a FREE 30 minute consultation and offer counseling sessions to work on strategies to make it through the holiday season.
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Holiday Stress, Mental Health and Music Therapy
During the holidays, we often find ourselves under extreme pressure from media, advertisements, and sometimes even family to have high expectations of joy, family values and gratitude, but sometimes this part of the calendar year can often be taxing and painful for some. We want to make sure you are gentle with yourself and have some musical resources to help you maintain your positive and healthy mind throughout this challenging time of the year. Our amazing music therapist, Kate would like to share a few music interventions we use in our mental health music therapy groups that you can keep at your disposal and practice when things seem overwhelming during the holidays.
1. Playlists
Create the perfect playlist for boosting your mood or even validating your emotions. Music is inseparable from emotion. Meaning, that if you listen to music that you find uplifting, you can try to refocus your energy into positivity. Listening to music has been proven to lower stress hormones such as cortisol. It also helps regulate your autonomic nervous system which controls your blood pressure. One way to start making playlists is to find a mood or theme and create playlists that encompass that mood or theme. Then, you can use it as a tool when you’re feeling down or stressed. Music can be a support, companion and an outlet, plus much more.
Here is an example of our 5 top Playlist titles and some song examples for each: (click on song titles to listen)
Inspiration Songs
A Change is Gonna Come - by Sam Cooke
Cranes in the Sky - by Solange
Gratitude Songs
Gratitude - by Earth, Wind and Fire
Days - by the Kinks
Releasing Anger Songs
So What - by Pink
Break Stuff - by Limp Bizkit
Distraction Songs
Them Changes - by Thundercat
Wait for a Moment - by Vulfpeck
Nostalgia Songs
Choose songs that remind you of the past and help you reminisce good time. You may also choose songs you listened to when you were 18, or songs you listened to 10 years ago. (Caution - be careful of grieving during these songs, its meant to help you connect to good feelings and welcome those into the present not to grieve or worry that you no longer feel this way)
2. Gratitude Lists
One practice that lends to maintaining positivity in times of adversity, is gratitude. It’s important to stay grateful for the things you receive whether it’s tangible or intangible. It helps you realize what you have rather than focusing on what you don’t have. Tony Robbins also talks a lot about focusing on gratitude as a practice. He states “gratitude and fear cannot exist at the same time” so if anything a gratitude practice can put our fear or negative thoughts on hold. To create your gratitude list, first, you can put on your uplifting playlist you created from the above playlist example. Then, you can start your gratitude lists out small with three things you’re grateful for and write them down. A great time to do this is in the morning when you wake up, or at night before you fall asleep. Challenge yourself to not repeat items on your lists. Some people create a notebook or a journal just dedicated to gratitude. Then, when you’re feeling down, you can read through all of the things you’re grateful for.
Here are some songs that you can use while practicing gratitude: (click on song titles to listen)
What a Wonderful World - by Louis Armstrong
In My Life - by The Beatles
Grateful - by Rita Ora
3. Movement
Here at Mewsic Moves, we want to encourage you to move! And what a better way to move, than to music. We’re not telling you to flat out dance, although dancing is so good for you. You can move however you feel most comfortable. Moving your body to music, such as walking, stretching or dancing can help calm and regulate your emotions. It can energize you and it can even get rid of anxious energy and thoughts as many of us feel during the holiday season. What feels comfortable for you? Do you enjoy walking? If so, that bilateral stimulation provides much benefit for your body and mind. Do you enjoy stretching? It can provide stress relief, pain relief and mental clarity. Finally, dancing. It can improve cardio health, it’s gentle on the body, and it often leads to joy. Use your uplifting playlist, or create a dance playlist and find what feels good for you and your body.
Here are some songs that we suggest that will get you up off your feet: (click on song titles to listen)
Sir Duke - by Stevie Wonder
Hey Ya! - by OutKast
Electric Feel - by MGMT
Can’t Stop the Feeling - by Justin Timberlake
We want you to first of all know that it’s “OK Not to be OK” (by Marshmellow & Demi Lovato) during these next few months of holidays and the whirling emotions that many of us feel. Although it’s challenging to find contrary action in hard times, we believe in you and want to share some music resources to help you get through this holiday season. We also want to encourage you to reach out and connect with others when you feel alone or need support. We hope that some of these music resources will help and support your optimum mental wellness this holiday season.
Peaceful and Musical Wishes this Holiday Season.
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